A thought

If one is suffering because one of one's beloved has betrayed one, then one must contemplate on the amount of betrayals that one has committed towards the Deen and towards that commitment that one has made with Allah Ta'ala. How much did one behave badly towards the Sunnah and the teaching of one's beloved Nabi (Sallallaahu Alaihi Wasallam). At the same time, it will alleviate one's suffering and it will give one the opportunity to become all the more sincere towards Allah Ta'ala and Rasulullah (Sallallaahu Alaihi Wasallam).

[English version of "Trahison" – Al Jamiat – Vol.5 No.8]