A good man...

It is not nice to see a man adopting the character of a woman. Similarly, it is not an honour for a woman to behave like a man.

Everyone loves pure and original things. No one likes it when there is amalgam in something. A good man will always like a woman who behaves like a woman. Similarly, a good woman will always love a man who acts and behaves like a man. Wearing earrings, necklaces, bracelets or applying henna on the hands, keeping long hair, braiding the hair, are all the manners of a woman. It is not pleasant to see a man with such an appearance.

 Similarly, it is very bad to see a woman in shirts and pants with a male haircut as it is a masculine style.

Everyone must act and behave according to the gender that Allah has granted him. This pleases Allah Ta’ala and it is one of the means to remain in well-being all the time.

Acting differently and alternatively invokes the wrath and the curse of Allah Ta’ala. How can a person be in well-being when he is living under the curse of Allah Ta’ala? It is a satanic inspiration that leads man to imitate woman and vice versa.

According to a Hadith, Rasulullah (Sallallaahu Alaihi Wasallam) has cursed men who imitate women and women who imitate men. (Bukhari)

[English version of "Ene bon z'homme ..." – Al Jamiat – Vol.1 No.7]