Social life

Does a married woman, who has left her husband for no valid reason go to hajj without husband if he has a son.

Is it permissible to throw husband out of the house when same is still in nikah, as the house belongs to wife.

Does the wife have the right to leave husband due to some rare shouts of husband, and remarks?

Assalamualaikum, my husband does not show much respect to me and talks cheaply or vulgarly to me sometimes. He also does some kind of perverted figures or sounds at times. I have talked about these with him, and his reply is that he's joking. But i do not like it at all because my biggest concern is our child, who seldomly happens to hear vile words also. The problem is that i am being aggressive with him nowadays, and i do not want to listen or obey him and lost interest in intimacy because im made to feel like a mere object of sex. I have requested that we seek counselling because there are other issues in our relationship, but his reaction is always negative. And i cannot stand how the situation is between us now. Could you please advise.

Just to know that if a woman is fed up with her husband's irresponsible behavior,his childish manners,he does not lend any support to his wife and most of all he does not take his responsibily of being a husband and he keep on heeding his family on how to lead his wife and sometime he also impose some unjust condition on her,he does not even make time for his wife.Due to those mentioned reason the wife can't feel the same love for her husband anymore and does not want to proceed her life with him but then there is sometime when the husband is kind as long as there is no issues..now the wife is confuse...what do you advice her? And as i know istikhara is prayed before getting married but is it right for her to pray istikhara in that case while the husband is still around and living under the same roof?

aslm. i cant bring myself to trust my hubby. please give me a solution.