Tarbiyat

The First Lot /Second Lot

Just like everything else, to grant a child or not to grant a child also lies in Allah Ta’ala's decree. To be granted a boy or a girl, also lies in the hands of Allah Ta’ala. "... He creates whatever He wills. He confers females to whomsoever He wills, confers males to whoever He wills, or He grants them as male and female ..." (42:49-50)

Ultrasound scan?

Question:

Is it permissible for a pregnant woman to undergo an ultrasound scan to find out the gender of her baby?

Answer:

Abortion? = Real terrorism!!!

Abortion is a crime, tyranny, cruelty and barbarity to humanity. If suicide is an offence, abortion is more than suicide. This is because if a person is not allowed to take his own life, then how will it be permissible for him to take someone’s else life? Taking the life of a stranger is already grave. Hence, won’t it be graver to take without pity the life of one’s own child who cannot defend himself? It is a way of terrorising the innocent ones! We all should know that we did not give life. We are not allowed to take it either.

YOUR PARENTS

There is no one who can love you more than your parents. It is something that you have not grasped and realised as yet. When you will have your own children, then truly you will know how much your parents love you. When your children will make you suffer, then you will know how much you made your parents suffer. You should not think that there is still time for it to happen. In the blink of an eye, you will see everything happening because time does not wait. It continues to move. It passes on. You are the one who sits, sleeps and rests.

THE DUTY OF A PARENT

The mentality, mannerisms, behaviour, and lifestyle of a child are influenced by the training and the education of Deen‎ given his parents. A child will develop and progress according to the way his parents teach him and discipline him. On the day of Qiyaamah, Allah Ta’ala will ask each parent about his children: 

  • What education and training did you give to your children? 

Breastfeeding

A baby is allowed to drink the milk of his mother or of another woman up to the age of 2 years. After 2 years, a baby should not be breastfed. During the 2-year period, if a baby drinks even a little milk from a woman, that baby will become the foster child of that woman. Similarly, this woman will become the foster mother for that baby.

Just as a woman is not allowed to marry her own child, she is also not allowed to marry her foster child.

Concern for Deen

When a person likes something, he has great concern for that thing. For example, a person loves his child, so he has concern for his child. He takes a lot of precaution to protect his child from falling sick. He keeps him away from cold, sun, dust, etc.

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